Friday, November 18, 2011

Wow! What a Day!!


We are back in Cincy and up at 5:00 am MN time but 6:00 am Cincy time!
Pretty much felt like I didn't wake up until the afternoon!
Went to 4 Doctor appts- they all went very well!!

In the afternoon we were blessed by a bloggy friend!
Faye picked up Sam and I and took us to an adorable shopping area and coffee shop!


Sam said to me "Mom, I really like your friend!" he quickly followed up with "I like you, too"
Thanks honey!!


Sam was our photographer! 
So to eliminate the upward, uncomplimentary view we got down on our knees for the pic!

The afternoon was delightful! I loved meeting her and she loved Sam! It was so nice to talk to a friend!

She didn't even comment on the small pimple on the end of my nose!
I told Hubby- I can't believe I'm going to meet a bloggy friend when I have a pimple on the end of my nose! He said give it a week and it'll be gone... excuse me, we are meeting tomorrow! 
He quickly came back with "pimples are youthful"!
What a guy!!
 I believed it!

Now for some incredibly wonderful news!! Two more kids ARE coming home!
Yep! 
We got our TA today!!
WoooHooooo!!

We leave in 11 days!

YIKES!!

Yes, you read that right!

Holy Cow, I got a lot to do!!

Tomorrow we go home and then it is pack, pack, pack!

China, here we come!!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

HaPpY bIrThDaY LuKe!


Today you are 3 years old (November 18th)! It was my hope that we would be holding you on your third birthday. It didn't quite happen BUT we will be holding you when you turn 3 yrs and 3 weeks!
Thank you Jesus!!


Two years ago you stole our hearts! For two years we have watched from afar the miracles that God has performed in your life. I have been in awe of our MAKER through you! 
For two years I have dreamed about you!
You are a precious gift from God! 


You have grown so much over these last 2 years! This is the picture I saw when I heard God speak "he is you son"!
You look as surprised as I was!


You are walking and talking now!


You go to preschool and your as smart as can me!


You also have great lookin' legs! 
You have a tender heart AND a great sense of humor!
You speak Mandarin and you know some English!


We are so blessed to have so many pictures of you!!

Happy Birthday Sweet Boy!


Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Trusting Him

Hubby and I sat down as we began this adoption and plotted out our target dates. It's fun to try to make some sense of a process that doesn't always make sense! We were amazed at how close our targeted dates were. Each time we where within 3 days of what we had hoped.

But our TA(Travel Approval to Ch*na) doesn't seem to want to cooperate! 

Leaving on the 28th was what we were hoping but that probably isn't going to happen. If our TA comes tomorrow there still may be titch of hope BUT after that our travel date will most likely move to the following week.

It's not wrong for us to hope and pray for a certain date BUT the best part of this whole process is that we are NOT in charge AND that we have prayed often and given it to our GOD! This whole process is in his very capable hands AND at this point only HE knows our travel plans!

We are looking forward to when he will be sharing them with us!

Dear sweet Luke has seen so many of his little friends leave his foster home. It breaks my heart that he has had to wait. 



I am sure Abby has seen many of the children at her CWI leave for their forever families, too.


Soon, dear children, soon it will be your time!
I cannot wait to wrap my arms around these precious treasures!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

China Travel, Sam Update and A Walk in the Woods!

God is so good!! We received Johnny's fingerprint date in the mail on Saturday!! Hubby will be taking him in tomorrow! YAY GOD!!


We are hoping to get our TA this week! It's not guaranteed but likely! We need to go to 2 Provinces and will be gone for 19 days. We could have made it 18 days but we have "business " in Beijing! We will leave on November 28th or December 5th. We are hoping for the earlier days but God is in control and we will go with whatever we get! (Gotcha days would be Abby 12/1 and Luke 12/5  OR  Abby 12/8 and Luke 12/12). IF there is a major problem then we would have to leave after Christmas on 12/26. We can't ask our sitter to have our crew over the holidays and we wouldn't want to be away from them. PRAYIN!!


Sam is doing very well. He is healing nicely and moving around just fine. Poor dear had his whole bottom cut from top to bottom if ya know what I mean. Sitting is still a challenge and he can not part his little legs, in other words no splits! We are returning to Cincy on Thursday, Nov 17-19th. Then we have a break until the end of January when we return to get his colostomy taken down (that's how they say it in the medical world)! I have plans to see a friend during this trip and am thinking that next time would be wonderful if anyone who wants to could come to the hospital! We could say hello to Sammy and then visit in the cafeteria! I would love to meet some Jesus loving, adoption loving, blog loving friends!
With our first trip I felt like I needed to figure things out in Cincy- I had no idea what I was doing. BUT now, it's like a second home and I would love to see people in January!


What did we do this weekend?


First I realized that I needed to have a masters degree in carseats!
Whodda thunk it!
They have made them oh so challenging but once ya figure it out they are easy!
It's just take this old dog a little more time to learn the new tricks!
More on this later!


Then we went for an awesome walk!  We stopped at our friends house who have a new puppy! She was just to cute! Only 9 weeks old and look at how big she is!!
She is just like a teddy bear!!


We have a state forest right by our house and we all loved walking through it!


The trail is hard to see with all the leaves but we managed!


I prefer leaves in the trees BUT this is a different kind of pretty!
Honestly, I don't know how God came up with all this!
It's awesome!!


We used the stroller until we got to the forest and then had Sam walk!
It was so good to get outside and get some exercise! It was 58 degrees- fabulous! The weather is about to change in these parts of the woods (pun- kind of)!


There was even a cute little bridge for us to go over!!


The puppy dogs loved the outing, too!


And now we are frantically trying to get ready for China!!
Ahhhhhhhhhhh!
There are so many wonderful people that we could meet in China- GZ! I am excited to see what God has planned!!


And for the grand finale!
Sarah dragged the little kids through out the house!
They had fun!

Friday, November 11, 2011

New Pics and Prayers!

Thank you for all your packing comments!! I have giggled and been motivated!! I am so glad I'm not the only one with this issue!


We have an update on Luke! He is so precious and beyond adorable! I cannot wait to get him in my arms, or at least semi close to wherever I am! I am guessing he will be in Babba's arm's long before he is in mine!




His birthday is coming up soon! I can't believe he is going to be 3 years old on November 18th!


We have asked for an update on Abby but we have already received 2 from a Province that is not good with giving updates so we are counting ourselves lucky and moving forward! We know she is the same size as Anna so buying clothes will be fairly easy! The hardest part is keeping them from Anna before we go to China! She wants to wear everything first that happens to be in the "Anna/ Abby" category!


Please do pray for these two treasures that we are about to get! We know Luke is doing well BUT we really don't know his current heart situation plus he has many cavities which is not good for a child with a heart issue.
We have asked Abby's province to be sure to transfuse her right before gotcha day so she will feel good while we are together in China (which will be 19 days). We will probably have to bring her straight to the ER once we arrive home- so your prayers will we so appreciated!




We are so thankful for the people at Hubby's work that were able to cut and paste and photo shop 3 missing family members into this picture! It feels so good to have everyone together... even if it is just a picture! Thank you Jesus for all our blessings!


We plan to send a copy to Luke and Abby and have a photo pillow made for them of their loving, large and slightly crazy family!!


FYI- Biggest bro Matt(far left), itty bitty Abby and Luke were added in! Thank you so much for to those that worked on it!!


We are also asking for more prayers regarding our TA. Their may be a hitch- Johnny turned 18 in Oct and did not have clearance. Everything had long ago been submitted but this detail was overlooked. We are in process to get this taken care of- and thought we were all cleared to go but now I am not so sure??
It may be holding up our TA.


To be honest- it makes me weak in the knees and my stomach turns- we want to get these dear children home. Please pray that God paves the way and clears up any hiccup that may have happened. Please pray that his perfect timing will be the result and that we travel to China asap!


Thank you!!

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Chevanne's Story

Thanks so much for your submissions, and please keep them coming!

Our first guest is: Chevanne.

Coincidently, Chevanne posted one of my favorite comments a while back and that comment is what motivated me to host guest posts!

Needless to say more, other than: Thank you Chevanne for participating!

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Zero waste means discovering
new ways to enjoy my community.
"Approaching Zero" by Chevanne S., NJ


In February 2011, I read an article on Huffington Post about a family that produced less trash in six months than most people did in a day. Impossible. I mocked the whole idea after seeing a picture of their six month trash tally that could fit into the palms of my hands. Just another crazy set of hippies on their high horse. The cacophony of the "green" movement was all the same junk. Soon I forgot about it.


I can't deny though, that I was intrigued by the concept. A few months later, I revisited the idea of zero waste by asking myself a simple question: Is it possible to produce no waste? Theoretically, yes, but this modern society is full of things we must throw away and the trappings of luxury we've become accustomed to would be difficult for anyone to shake. I'm a woman of science and logic before all and decided to be charitable. I began to read all the articles posted on the ZWH blog, but was still relatively unconvinced. I got ahead of myself and like others, judged the language as condescending and the tone, annoying casual.


Then I started to think a bit about the context of the message and play devil's advocate against my own judgments, shifting my focus in order to look at both sides of the argument and find slivers of truth. I found that most of the objection to zero waste was a matter of perspective from a cluttered life. The issue of time commitment kept coming up and I realized the lost potential in days spent stocking our cupboards with food we will never eat, reorganizing things we don't need and still buying more stuff. It was also a false perception of cost. I realized I had learned that a long time ago. I found a recipe for scones and could make them for pennies, instead of buying them for $4 a piece. I never bought another again. Why are we so afraid to admit what we already know is true?


I became a believer in the zero waste journey when I decided to clear out my cupboards. I threw away about $100 worth of expired food, finally realizing what terrible shopping habits I had. I didn't even know what food was in my house and I piled on more. After that experience, there was no turning back, but in order to make the changes, I had to start phasing out a life of waste. I also started thinking about donation. It was an unnerving prospect at first, but an essential part of decluttering my life. I went through old clothes that still had tags on and wondered why was I making space in my home to keep junk. Over the next few weeks, I donated one third of my clothing.


I was still fumbling through the process when I had a revelation. In math, there is what's called an asymptote. It's a curve that infinitely approaches zero, but never gets there. That was the secret. It's about getting as close as you can to zero and posing the question over and over: Is it possible to produce no waste? From then on, every challenge I met was treated like an experiment beginning with that same question. It has spurred a host of small experiments all over the house. I decided on a transitional strategy of observing, weaning and replacing. Examine the routine, try out less wasteful solutions and replace wasteful products when they run out. I have come to know what exactly is in my cupboards with no duplication of products. I am phasing out use of plastic containers and replacing them with glass or reusable bags. There have been no paper towels for months. I'm even toying with homemade facial scrubs. It's almost as if this journey has been a exercise in logic and so far everything I'm doing makes sense.


There is a bigger picture we don't see which keep us focused on our own silo, forgetting that each one of us makes an big impact, good or bad. We really have to start thinking about what choices we make and keep heading toward zero. I've changed the way I think because I've altered my perspective, seeing truly the consumerist machine for what it is. It takes a while to realize what you really need and week by week, month by month, letting everything else go. It's like shedding your skin and you are all the more free and liberated because of it.


Despite my failures and setbacks, I know I've come a long way. I recently ordered reusable sandwich bags and the website offered a free gift with my purchase. I happily refused.

I have another... issue!

After many years I have come to the conclusion that I am a horrible and I mean horrible packer...


It's embarrassing, humiliating, ridiculous and HEAVY!!


Generally I don't forget things- that's not the problem. In fact, I don't forget anything! Why? Because I bring EVERYTHING! So much so- that I often can't find half the things I brought, they are buried somewhere in the suitcase or stashed in some pocket!


I always knew I was not a good packer but when I was younger it was cute, then as I got older it was funny NOW... it's neither... ugh!


As Sam and I have traveled alone to Cincy twice (we are here again for 24 hours) and I am solely responsible for all the things I bring, I have come to the conclusion that IT'S TIME to learn how to pack!
In the past I could rely on my big strong hubby for manuel labor (sorry honey) but not anymore! He's home with the kids and I am traveling with my junior sidekick, Sammy!


The poor dear guy has begged me to pack lighter! Now I know why!


So friends- this is what I need from you!! We are going to China hopefully SOON! There's no time to read a book on 'The Art Of Packing"! (plus I'm a slow reader!)


Please, please give me packing advice! General advice and China specific advice is welcome!


Can't wait to read what you have to say!! I am desperate!


Thank you, thank you, thank you!!