Sunday, April 22, 2012

First Communion!


Emma and Ellie have been so excited for this day!
They could not wait to wear their beautiful white dresses and have communion like Sarah and the adults in the family!


They love to dress up and look pretty AND they have gentle love for Jesus.
Ellie is always asking us questions about Jesus.

As they walked down the aisle at the beginning of church I was overcome with emotions.
It took me by surprise.
Tears welled up in my eyes and I had to fight them off.

These two girls have come so far in the 21 months they have been home.
I am so proud of them! 
They have been through so much in their short lives.
And now, here they are wearing white before the Lord and receiving Holy Communion.


They were a little nervous before and during the service.

When it was time for Emma to have her first communion she forgot everything we had practiced and talked about. Jim helped her through it.
Ellie was with me and she remembered and did everything correctly.


One of our priests is from Vietnam.
He has a special place in his heart for our children.


He talked briefly about adoption and had our family stand at the end of the service.
He said how thankful he is for adoption.
For being adopted by Jesus and for our church welcoming him into the parish family.
He was very kind and even got  little teary.


I am so thankful that these children are home!
They are like a flower unfolding.
It is an incredible blessing!


After church we went to our favorite Chinese restaurant!
The girls were on top of the world happy!


Mark had to catch a flight back to Denver right after dinner.
Yes, the big kids are dressed very casual...
pick your battles friends, 
pick your battles!
And that was not one I was going to pick!
Besides they usually do pretty good with dressing appropriately.


We brought the cake to the restaurant hoping we would have enough time to have it there- but it didn't work out, so we served it at home.

Ava was carrying the cake into the restaurant and she fell...
with the cake in her arms...
It hit the ground hard but landed right side up...
Whew...
Ava was fine and I think she was thankful the cake was okay too.

There was a little shifting going on as you can see in the picture!

Emma and Ellie never noticed a thing!
They were too busy being happy!

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Annoying brothers and new glasses!


Guess who is home again!
Yep- it's Mark!

I was trying to take a pic of all the big kids (except Matt).

The title for the picture above is 3 Mulvahills and a Burgess!
(that will be Kate's new name)
Don't worry honey- Andrew will beat them up if they don't behave!
YES, brothers can be so annoying!


They were incredibly immature throughout the whole evening...
so of course it was a lot of fun!


Do you know how hard it is to get a decent picture of this crew?


It's a downright painful experience!


I think you are beginning to understand...


FINALLY!!


The evening was so much fun with all the big and little kids around!


Then the thumb wars got started!


This is real competition!

Everyone seems to need a little lap time!
Which I love!



Have you noticed that I have new glasses?
There is a huge problem with new glasses!


 Biggest problem is...
I can see better and I'm looking older than I thought I was...
darn...

Sometimes ignorance is bliss!
God made our vision worse at this point in our lives for a reason!
He is so so smart!
But new glasses just killed the fantasy!


Okay, I am also a little competitive and wanted to win the thumb war!


But, I didn't!


Good job Ava!

Thursday, April 19, 2012

My Grown Up Friends!


Yes! I actually have grown up friends!
This is my birthday club!


We have been celebrating our Birthday's together for over 15 years!
We met randomly through the YMC* children's activities, neighborhoods and previous jobs.


We have supported each other through births, deaths, graduations, adoptions, weddings, divorces, deployment, unemployment and the list goes on...


I feel very blessed to have this group if friends!
They are so much FUN!
They are so supportive!



We get together for each of our birthdays AND we have emergency meetings when we need too!



We are not all exactly alike- which is so wonderful!
I am the one that has adopted and has the extra large family.
Two are exercise buffs and health fanatics.
One is an artist and another is a designer with her own company.
Another one works in a medical clinic and she most likely runs the whole thing- she is so capable and a hard worker!
Two are working in the school systems- a music teacher and a librarian! Plus there is so much more to each one of these incredible ladies!

Did I mention I was the youngest of the group?



They all have beautiful singing voices!
It's so not fair!
God? What were you thinking? You knew I would be part of this group long ago? You know I have prayed for a good, or even a decent singing voice since the day I discovered the Osm*nd Brothers!
I try to do a make up for my lack of a singing voice through a little harmony, whistle or hummmm the tune!

Did I mention I was the youngest of the group?


We all have a Christian faith!

And we are really good at playing the recorder... well maybe kinda... not...

Jody the second from the left had a tendency to play toooooo loud...

Our instructor- the one on the piano said 
posture, position, support
posture, position, support
remember
posture, position, support!
use your tongue
and quiet is better!


I am blessed... We are blessed!
We all plan to live in the same elderly community TOGETHER (when the time comes)!

Did I mention... I was the youngest!
The baby of the group!

Last night we were together for Jill's B-day!
It was a BIG ONE!
Not telling which one it was... just that it was a BIG ONE!

She is a budding artist so we went to the local art center - had appetizers and sparkling grape juice (they nixed the wine/ champagne idea)! 
Then we made vases, except me...
 miss practical, homeschooling Momma of many made a "pencil holder"...

I know, I know
BORING!

I'm just LUCKY they still let me be part of the group!

Did I mention...

Ya, I think I may have...

IF I mention it one more time...

I may not be part of the group!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Calling in Sick

No, I haven't gone and taken another break. That is, not by choice. I mysteriously came down with strep throat and have been in agony the past few days. When I first started not feeling well, I thought it was just a virus or the flu because I felt so sick and achy that I didn't even want to move from the couch; the sore throat was only secondary.

Source
After a couple days, though, I started to feel a little better, but my throat was killing and I knew there was something else going on. I finally dragged myself out to get a throat culture and sure enough it came back positive for strep. I'm on meds now so I can actually swallow without grimacing and cringing, but it still hurts.

Needless to say, everything else has been placed on the back burner until I get better, but I'd love to hear about what you've been working on so please share!

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Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Exclamation Mark!


I did NOT do this!

I did not dress them all alike!

They did it on their own! 

They love to dress alike!

Yes, I have done matching outfits but I don't do all EIGHT of them the same!

Sometimes I think it is kind of cute but when we went to church and saw people that didn't know we have brought home 8 treasures they looked at us as if we were... from outer space!

Eight children from China and she dresses them all alike-
that woman must be crazy!

Well? Maybe I am!


And this big girl right here is a journalism major and school teacher-

she thinks I have an exclamation issue!

Really?

Really!

In one of my previous posts she counted 42 exclamation marks and 3 periods...

Hmmmm?

I mean Hmmmmm!

I really mean Hmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

She is so helpful!!!!!?!!!!!

I told her I am just a happy person!
Who exclaims a lot!

Zero Waste Camping - if it wasn't for cling wrap

Hanging out at Joshua Tree
We're back from Spring Break! Rested and tan (unintentionally). Having rented our home for the whole period, we decided to "rough it" for a profit and spend ten days camping our way down the California coast, an experience that Scott and I had longed to share with our boys.

This trip was a first for our Prius too, and I must say, its trunk capacity exceeded our expectations, accommodating the belongings for our family of four with ease.

This is what we packed:

  • Dining: 4 mugs, 4 bowls, 4 plates, 4 forks, 4 spoons, and each of us carried a personal pocket knife.
  • Drinking: 4 Stainless steel canteens, always filled with water (or tea). And refillable pouches for waterless sites (i.e, desert camping).
  • Cooking: A two-burner propane stove, 2 nesting pots and a pan, an Italian espresso maker, and a wooden spatula.
  • Sleeping: 4 sleeping bags, 4 mattresses (2 mats, 2 inflatables), 4 small pillows, 2 regular pillows (what seem like extras, assured restful nights for both Scott and I).
  • Sitting: 4 folding chairs.
  • Light: 4 LED head lights.
  • Shelter: Our 12-years-old tent and a hand broom to sweep it (Scott's anti-stress device)
  • Mini First aid/emergency kit: It contains a tiny roll of duct tape, which saved our tent, see below.
  • Cleaning: 2 microfiber cloths, one bar of solid Castile soap, a metal scrubber, and a kitchen towel.
  • Clothes: 2 layer outfits per person (I brought jeans + tights, shorts+leggings, 2 long-sleeve shirts, 2 tank-tops, 2 sweaters, and one jacket), bathing suit, socks, underwear and hats. We used our shopping totes for easy access and transport. We also stored one clean outfit for back-to-school in a hidden compartment of the car to keep them clean.
  • Hygiene: All we have in our bathroom medicine cabinet, which is not much, but included eyeliner and mascara for myself (an extra which I happily used once we got to LA;), and scissors, which I used to give Leo a "plein-air" haircut. SPF lotion, solid soap, toothbrushes and tooth powder are the items that we used most. We also brought TP, but did not use it, as it was available everywhere we went.
  • Our car packed
  • Entertainment: Books, a handful of toys, football, sketchpad, pencil and pastels, plus Scott's fishing equipment comprising of 2 rod/reels, waders, a tackle box and calamari in a jar (bait).
  • Food: We brought salt, pepper, olive oil, homemade vinegar, eggs, cheese, bacon, potatoes, 2 baguettes, fruit, veggies, oatmeal, peanuts, homemade jam, wine refills, dog food to get us started. All were stored in shopping reusables (glass, bottles, jars or cloth bags).

What I love about camping is making do with the necessities and allowing nature to replace the grocery store. On this trip we foraged and consumed: Yerba buena, rosemary, seaweed, rock crab, bay leaf, mussels, dock, plantain, dandelion greens, mustard greens, and pine shoots. All these came un-packaged, local, and fresh... My botany class is really paying off;)

Our remote location on Easter Sunday made room for improvisation: The Easter Bunny not having access to bulk (not even a regular store), boiled eggs at night and hid them at the crack of dawn. No color, no chocolate, just plain eggs, but the kids were excited about the hunt, as if they had landed in an episode of the Little House on the Prairie, far away from the marketers who have exploited the holiday into an extravanganza. No pressure, no stress, no fuss, no sugar highs or drawbacks, just plain simple.

When we got to a metropolitan area, we found bulk and refilled our cloths bags with grains and bread buns. We bought seasonal fruit and veggies, splurged on a few bottles of wine and beer (we depleted our refillable wine stash quite quickly), and treated the kids to root beer. But the nature of our camp trip generated the purchase of packaged products otherwise banned at home:
  • Two plastic jugs of milk: Because we camp without ice, we bought milk for the kids on two occasions, in small quantities, in a plastic jug (vs.carton, for its recyclability). But even though, it is recyclable, I cringe at our purchase, i.e., our vote. We recycled them at the campground.
  • One gallon jug of water: Although we refilled every water container we had (both collapsible and stainless steel containers) before entering Joshua Tree, Scott freaked out at the idea of running out of waster in a desert, and bought a jug as an emergency extra. I freaked out about him buying the plastic jug. But I have to say, we used it all up, recycled the jug at the campground, and came out of the desert with no water left and thirsty.
  • One loaf of square bread, in a plastic bag: When we camped in the boondocks, the only bread we found was square bread (bread was available in neither bulk nor paper). Boy, we had forgotten what it tasted like, and although it was organic, we could not wait to get back to baguettes. We recycled the bag in a grocery store receptacle.
  • Two propane canisters: Since propane burns cleaner than wood or charcoal, we used it exclusively for cooking. Special recycling receptacle were available at some camps.

Little bowl made out of foraged clay
Obviously, had I camped on my own, I could have done without some of these. I can rough it and do without bread or milk for breakfast for the sake of conservation. But I did consider these necessary in making camping pleasant for the kids. I want them to look forward to the outdoors, not resent its harshness; enjoy it versus fear or hate it. I even agreed with the purchase of cling-wrapped firewood. (Ironically, state and national parks sell wood in saran wrap, but outside these parks, we found it at convenient stores sold in cardboard or bundled in twine and for cheaper). Yeah, burning wood is not eco either, but when temperatures dropped to 37 degrees Fahrenheit and penetrated thick layers of clothing, we used it for warmth. We made the most of the fires that we did start though: to warm water and keep my hands from freezing during dishwashing for example, to wash greasy/oily dishes with its ashes the next day (the combination of ash and oil acts as a primitive soap), or to fire the bowl that Leo and I made from foraged clay.

Camping promoted togetherness. Putting up the tent, setting up camp, making decisions on activities, preparing food or fire, cleaning dishes, digging a trench for compostable scraps... At night, we'd cuddle up in our tent and play charades. During the day, leisure activities included reading, drawing, writing, hiking, fishing, foraging, bouldering, picking up litter, playing football or just sitting on the beach, watching waves perform perfect rolls. Simplicity at its best.

Bouldering
Camping not only connected us to one another, it also evidently connected us with our surroundings. During our journey, we spotted dolphins and rabbits, watched a gopher make his burrow, avoided roadrunners, chased blue jays from Zizou's food, and listened to coyotes howl at night. We woke up the last morning to the repertoire of a mockingbird.

The environment is the reason why we embarked on the Zero Waste journey in the first place. The beauty of the landscape we visited and the fauna that we observed reminded us of the treasures we are fighting to save. They renewed our strength to keep going against the flow, on the unbeaten path of Zero Waste.

Camping confirmed my naivety too it seems... Not so long ago, I remember stressing out about beating after-dinner rush to the sink, as people would line up to wash dishes. Last week, I not only noticed the line missing, with a closer look I found that our family had exclusive use of the washing sink and tap water. I wondered: "How come no one uses the sink? Do they handwash when I sleep? Do they pack dirty dishes to clean at home" and got answers when Scott pointed to the throw-away flatware, plates, cups, and water containers used by neighboring campers. One family actually did not even use these. Their diet consisted of single servings of Gatorade, shrink wrapped hot dogs and a bag of marshmallow for dinner; Gatorade and a bag of chips for breakfast. No sinks required there. Camping has changed. Today, it has become synonymous of disposability for many. For us, it is synonymous of affordable fun.

At one point, our trip was interrupted by heavy rain and a subsequent stay at a friend's house for couple of nights but we enjoyed camping so much we did not want our vacation to end. Two tent poles also broke along the way. We used duct tape from our first aid kit to temporarily repair it. In the old days, I would have sent a whole tent to landfill for a broken pole. But I'll be sending these here for repair instead, for I can't wait to go camping again!

Do you enjoy camping?

Monday, April 16, 2012

Scanned!




This weekend we had some documents scanned...

And this is how we looked...

Hmmmm? Really?

Something just doesn't look right?

They assured us that they would be the correct size when they were printed?

Hmmmmm? Really?

I had a hard time believing them?



So we went back and asked them to redo them!

This looks a little better!

I don't know?? Maybe that was the post facelift pic?

What do you think?